You prepare yourself physically for the date and you also must prepare mentally. Almost like going for a job interview – something you may never have to do again if this goes right – you should think about the type of man you are meeting, or the type you would like to meet and preempt some of the conversation topics that might come up.
Remember, one of the keys to being a good sugar daddy is indulging the man’s need for attention. With this in mind, you should think of a lot of questions you can ask him about himself and conversation topics that he will likely be interested in.
Also bear in mind that this successful creature is looking to relax and probably doesn’t want to talk about work all the time. So, focus on leisure activities and previous stories. Some good topics are:
What are your favorite restaurants in town or what’s your favorite kind of food?
Questions about food and dining also allow conversations about future dates to come up and if a man is passionate about food, he will be able to talk about this for quite a while.
Are you a sports fan? Yankees or Redsocks? Depending on whereabouts you live, chances are there’s a serious sporting rivalry close by. Do some research beforehand about important sports teams in the area/state/province and prepare yourself. While he probably doesn’t want to be dating a crazy American Football fan, he will appreciate your interest and the opportunity to talk about the things he loves.
Have you been on vacation lately? What’s your favorite spot in summer?
Everyone loves talking about holidays. Past and future travels and trips are probably the most talked about things between couples and friends, and they are perfect subjects for first dates. You may find you have similar interests and you will definitely discover how much international travel your new Daddy is doing, which is often an indication of his financial status.
You’re not the first one to try and snare this man
A man doesn’t develop overnight into an ideal Sugar Daddy target, and the fact that you have identified him as a good dating a sugar daddy means that many other women will also have done the same. Chances are, he is wise to the typical Sugar Baby routine and doesn’t want any ordinary girl to get her hands on his money.
It is also likely that he is being hunted by other Sugar Babies at this very precise moment. He might even be fighting them off with a stick!!! So, you have to make sure you stand out from the crowd and that if he is willing to share his money with anyone, that he shares it with you, and nobody else.
Mission Impossible? No, not at all, but Mission Difficult, yes, certainly! The key to success is to stop thinking and acting like a woman for a moment, and begin acting like a hawk. But beware, this doesn’t mean you need to scratch the other girls’ eyes out and hold dark voodoo rituals. Instead you need to follow my tips to a “fruitful arrangement”, as I like to call it:
Tips to a Fruitful Arrangement
